Sunday, January 25, 2009
Raised to Cheat
I think I was raised to cheat on women. If going by what the man that many educational institutions believe to be the father of psychology (Freud) and his Oedipus theory one can argue that point. The theory basically says: every man wants to be intimate with his mother. With that being noted this would mean a boy would have an attraction for women who imitate his mother during his developmental stages. So, if you was raised by more than one woman, would you have a desire for more than one woman? One not being enough to fill that void from your adolescents? For instance, if your mother is mad at you, who do you go to? If you have a father more than likely him however, if you are raised by other women your choice could be a grandmother or aunt maybe a cousin. I stress immediate family in this argument because these women would have to be playing the role of your mother at one time throughout the everyday of your upbringing. Point being, the attention from all these different women throughout the early stages in life imprint emotionally on a young man, giving him a sense, urge or need to have more than one woman. When one is mad, the other one still loves you. Although they may not all know it as well as yourself, they all have special places with you because they are their on entity but collectively are perfect. This of course is all relative and cannot be applied to every cheating man known in history but I do believe it can be found true in some cases. I think I was raised to cheat....
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Of course im entitled to my own opinions on this shyt! So imma start off by saying inno.. i kno u well enough- and by that- saying you a great man and can become a greater man, and make somebody really happy. But!- I feel that it doesnt take more than one person to make u happy...love is something u can find in- andd all quality's in ONE woman. The love, understanding, patience, frienship, and communication-which is key. Maybe you havent found that one person yet whom you can relate with in all... And remember you will only kno the real meaning of love when u have FALL'N IN LOVE xoxox Mz.Cherry
ReplyDelete...and this is the reason a lot of people don't believe in a lot of Freuds theories anymore. His ideas are still the basis of psych but only bcuz psych is such a new area of science. Cuz in this sense a boy who grows up with out a mother and only his father, would be gay...?
ReplyDeleteThat could be applied if you believe a person isn't born gay, but grows into it through developmental stages. Someone who believes that due to chemical imbalance in the womb or genetics a person is born gay, would say yes the child could develop an attraction for his father. Having a twisted case of the electra complex. However, you can't take a straight boy, put him in an all male environment to be raised and expect him to be gay. He would identify with one of the men more closely, sharing security and trust(unfortunately many men have betrayed that trust of young boys, but that's another topic). They may even fulfill all in a relationship which Mz. Cherry states as: "The love, understanding, patience, frienship, and communication-which is key." That doesn't make him gay. However it could make him more understanding and more open towards men, leaving him weary of sharing himself with women because he hasn't had that encounter yet. Just on America's Home Funniest Videos they had a little boy on there explaining to his mom why she should divorce his father and marry him...his only problem was: "she would be too old..."
ReplyDeleteOkay so i read this over twice and my thoughts on it are somewhat understanding. Its like a subconcious thing and i think its the truth. I mean of course females don't wan't to hear it but it makes sense. Every female has certain qualities that another does not. This meaning you will always have pieces from one woman to the next therefore never soley with one woman and i think it goes vice versa. I agree I think collectively they are perfect and have a sense of fulfillment...
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